If you are like most intended parents, you want to build that special bond with your gestational carrier. You want to be present at every checkup, know when the baby first kicks and be a part of the labor process. Building that bond with the gestational carrier is so precious, because she takes on one of the most selfless jobs anyone could ever do. She not only gives the the intended parents an amazing gift, but she also carries a load of responsibility that can be overwhelming. She’s carrying precious cargo that doesn’t belong to her. That in itself is…